Come Forward for Special Needs
This was published in the JHV by VICKI SAMUELS on 25.JAN.2007
After attending an informative meeting for Club Haver at the Jewish Community Center on Sunday, Jan. 21, I am compelled to address the members of our community who have a child or adult child with special needs. Why? Because our community advocates have no way of knowing how many families are needing appropriate educational and social services – even uniquely Jewish – for their loved ones.
Because in recent years I have discovered that some parents are in denial of their children’s special needs – either out of unnecessary embarrassment or simply because they don’t know how or who to ask for help – I will tell you my connection to the special needs conundrum.
My husband and I are the blessed grandparents of 4-year-old Isabel and 18-month-old Joseph, both of whom have autism, who will be moving with our son and daughter-in-law to Houston this fall. In addition, Alyssa, our 12-year-old granddaughter and an Emery/Weiner student, is a Friendship Circle volunteer, who delightedly goes to the home of a special needs family every Sunday to play with their daughter.
Our service agencies are listening to families who have come forward. Jewish Family Service created a Special Needs Task Force, chaired by Sandy Block. It will launch a comprehensive online resource guide within the next few weeks (at www.jfshouston.org) for families with special needs. Secondly, JFS is assessing the needs of our community, not only for today, but for future adult generations. Among these needs are education, socialization, social services and housing. However, Jewish Family Service has knowledge only of the families they currently are serving. They need to hear from the silent ones.
Mark Katzenellenbogen is chair of the Special Needs subcommittee of the JCC Children’s Family and Camp Committee. He and his wife, Fran, active in the special needs community, organized Sunday’s meeting, which included Tu B’Shevat activities for the children. In keeping with the holiday theme, the couple hopes to plant the seed for future discussion and action.
Attending the meeting were organization representatives, parents and their children and teen volunteers from The Friendship Circle, The Emery/Weiner Tikkun Olam club and Maccabi girls soccer. Briefing parents on their services were Diane Brezner, special education consultant for the Bureau for Jewish Education; Rabbi Dovid Goldstein, Chabad’s Friendship Circle; Melanie Musser, Jewish Children’s Regional Services and Special Friends Club; Sergio Rosenhek, TOPSoccer, JCC program for youth with disabilities; and Dr. Allan Panzer, owner of Aim High Academy.
As parents took turns introducing themselves, they shared personal stories of frustration in finding services for their children. JFS is poised to respond, to apply for grants, yet ironically handicapped without the knowledge of the number of families in the Jewish community who need assistance.
If you are a member of a family with a loved one with special needs – even if you think you do not need help – contact Sandy Block at 713/667-9336 or email her here.
Katzenellenbogen may be reached here
A forum has been established at groups.yahoo.com:
Also of note is Capitol Day 2007 on Wednesday, Feb. 14, in Austin. With the theme, “The Heart of the Matter,” the Arc of Houston is providing bus transportation for adults to advocate for their children who need special services. The Arc is a nonprofit organization which advocates for the inclusion of people with mental retardation and other developmental disabilities. Call 713/957-1600 for bus information.